Sicilian Mama, I wish I lived closer to you -- I would sooooo enjoy some cooking sessions with you! All that fresh, good stuff! Mmmmmm!
Yes, it is absolutely true that we should avoid sugar in all of its forms. And grain/gluten products. And unhealthy fats. Since this is a permanent lifestyle change, we also need to not make ourselves CRAZY!
There are times when avoiding EVERYTHING would just be overwhelmingly impossible.
So I read labels on everything I pick up in the store. If it has sugar, I look for something similar or another brand that doesn't have sugar, something I can substitute, or try to figure out if I can make it myself with my own ingredients. If I can't find something to replace it, my next choice is to make sure any sugars or starches are at the bottom of the ingredient list or are listed in the "less than 2%" category. And then I use it VERY sparingly, and not for everyday use. If it has MSG, hydrogenated anything, or hydrolized anything, I automatically put it back on the shelf.
In the book, Roger says over and over that we need to enjoy this way of living -- so we should make the least fattening choices that still taste good to us. The vast majority of the things we choose to put in our bodies should be whole, healthy choices, clean of any of the "trigger" ingredients that might bring on cravings. That way, if there is the occasional ingredient that has a small amount of sugar or starch, but we can't replace, it will be unlikely to cause damage.
What I CAN'T do is say, "Oh well, it's only a little bit of sugar or starch, so it won't hurt if I use it all the time, and I like it, so I'll use it generously." If I make that exception for a few things, more and more exceptions start creeping in, and pretty soon I'm back in the same sinking boat. I have to ALWAYS be conscious of ingredients, and try to make the choices that fit LDL the best. It is easy to get complacent and slack off!
When reading the recipes and other people's journals, I also have to be aware that some things work for others, but not for me, and vice-versa. This is a lifestyle, not a rigid diet plan, so I have to learn, a step at a time, what works for me, and what I can live with.
I have soooo many great recipes from these boards, I'll NEVER be able to try them all!
Honestly, I've never been 7 months into a diet and NOT been frustrated or looking for excuses to cheat. With LDL, I still have to be vigilant, but I have no frustration, and no reason to look forward to being off this plan, or making excuses to cheat. And if I do goof up or choose to eat off plan for some reason, it has never been so easy to get right back on the train.
Love LDL!
Terri