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Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 1:58 pm
by 51_too_young_to_be_old
:blush: I am 51 years old have been going to weight watchers from age 9. I woke up this morning and am 314 pounds. I over the years know I do not work the program right, I try and try and fail. The leaders tell me it is feed back not failure but at 314 it sure feels like failure. The today I realized maybe it is NOT _me_ maybe it is them.  I need something else cause WW is not working for me, and it is NOT my fault.

So I got the LDL book about 6 months ago. I have read and re read it yesterday and today, gathering everything I can. I am ready for a change I am ready to step out of this life I am in. My sweet adorable husband is right by my side encouraging me, try this do it...

I noticed some people journalling, I have done that all my life, did not see in the book where it was required. should I journal? weigh and measure  *lipssealed* I know how LOL I am even good at it. Just hoping to relax a little.

funny that at 51 I feel like a child again stepping into a new class room, anxious, excited, and hopeful.

thanks for your help.

I wrote this, it reflects how I feel

Hard
Obese, life is hard
LOW self-esteem is hard
Self-loathing is hard
Depression is hard
Getting into bed is hard
Once I get into the bed... Getting comfortable is hard
Public restrooms are hard
Restaurant booths are hard
Airplane seats are hard
Theater seats are hard
Amusement parks are hard
Patio chair surviving me is hard
Tying my shoes is hard
Cutting my own toenails is hard
Painting my toenails is hard
Getting into the van is hard
Driving so tightly fit is hard
The seat belt not fitting is hard
Picking things up when they drop to the floor is hard
Picking up toys with the kids is hard
Standing up from the floor is a hard
Playing is hard
For my heart pumping blood to all of me is hard
My legs ache, lifting them is hard
My feet hurting from the weight they carry is hard
Staying on program is hard
Being over weight is hard
It is time to
Choose your hard

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:16 pm
by vickiann
Hi Sandy, I can relate to all you say. We're the same age and even close to same weight. Good luck!
Vicki

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:19 pm
by MsHeirloom
Sandy- I have felt your pain and frustration as have all of us here.  You have come to the right place.  This is a wonderful group of supportive people who only want you to succeed.  Like any big family, the past couple of weeks have had some bickering.  But, by and large, this is the best group of people, and the best eating plan you could ever imagine.  The food is great, you never need to be hungry or feel deprived, and there is always someone available to answer questions or give support to you.  This plan is fabulous.  We look forward to sharing your victories.  Pam

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:27 pm
by 51_too_young_to_be_old
Oh thank you so much for the welcome. :) this has me so hopeful

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:31 pm
by lrainbow2006
Sandy...I have only been on here for a little over a month..and wow am I glad to be here.  You have finally found the right way to eat and I'm sure you are going to see results better and easier than you have ever before.  Journaling your food is a great idea...especially at first.  It keeps us honest and accountable to ourselves I think.  If I know I have to post what I ate, it makes me think really hard whether I am hungry or just eating to eat.  The terrible food cravings go away so quickly!  Please keep in touch and let us help you on your journey.  You will Love it!    Lisa

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:32 pm
by witheraway1
Hi Sandy, Welcome to LDL......WE ARE ALL HAVING SUCCESS LOSING WEIGHT. This will be the best decision you ever made.....Don't forget we are here to help you a long the way.........You can do this. It just got easier for me to paint my toe nails.    :laughing:      Wither

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:35 pm
by wendysgoodnews
Welcome to Let's Do Lunch Sandy
You have come to the right place.  I was in the same boat as you in November with weighing 360+ lbs and miserable.  I have now lost 85 lbs with out exercise and I feel healthy and I feel great.  I tried all the other diets out there and none of them worked long term for me and they were hard and discouraging.

LDL is an exciting walk everyday with all the wonderful recipes and great support on the boards.  I personally do a journal everyday on line to keep myself accountable plus if I get off on what I am eating the food police will help me make better choices.  The reason this works is it is not just another diet it is a life change that works well.  It removes all those terrible cravings I have had all my life and makes my body want better healthy foods.  I was never much of a veggie or fruit eater but that has now changed and I love most all fruit and alot more veggies then I ever used to.  The soups are fabulous and I can eat them until I am full so I there is never a problem with feeling hungry all the time.

Ask lots of questions and alot of others will help you out.  I hope you will stay posting so we can share in your victory.  Read other journals and posts and you will find yourself so encouraged by how everyone else is doing.  Look up jkgregories journal she started about the same time I did and has lost 100 lbs with good eating and exercise.

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 2:42 pm
by MusicManiac
Hi Sandy,

Staying on "Let's Do Lunch" is NOT hard!!!

My husband and I have been doing this for a year - with NO weighing, measure, counting, portion control, etc.  I pray this will be the miracle that you're looking for!!!

Welcome,
Marga

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 3:17 pm
by julie409
HI Sandy,  *hug*

Welcome!  I am so happy you have found your way here. You will never have to DIET again. LDL allows you to eat all the best, freshest foods possible. It is a lifestyle choice. It is a difficult concept to believe but you can eat when you want and still lose weight as long as it is LDL. There seems to always be someone on here ready to help you - even if you are doing battle with a cookie - of course most of us don't have them in our homes but sometimes at work a challenge pops up.  *evil*

I can relate to everything you wrote but I want you to put that behind you. That was your past and Today is a new day! If you like to write then perhaps you can imagine a life that is better for you - more healthy and filled with fun experiences. Everyday it is your decision - but LDL has all the will power you need built right in. The cravings go in a few days and then the hunger monster gets banished as well. I know it may seem like a long road but you can do it. So many of us have.

Journal if you like - it is a great way to be held accountable.  It is up to you.  Ask lots of questions in the beginning. Have you been to a doctor recently?  You may wish to get checked and make sure your hormones and thyroid are all in good order.

Can't wait to hear about your successes!  

Julie :rose:

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 3:42 pm
by witheraway1
Julie, What nice post........... you  are so clever what you said is so true. Glad your here!  Wither

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 4:03 pm
by julie409
Wither  *hug*  :kissed:

Julie :rose:

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 4:06 pm
by Clown Lady
Again welcome on board
I have lost 40 pounds on LDL and some not on LDL  My highest weight was 290 and I am now at 223.  My feet have shrunk and my shoes are bigger, I can now tie my shoes without effort as for the nails I have a great DH that still does that for me he is great, The airplane seat fits better not great yet but better and all those things get better with each pound.  This is not a diet but a WOE (way of eating)  It is so easy.  I take my corn thins into restaurants with me and where I live there is no questions about that.  I eat beans for breakfast as it helps me get to dinner.  For supper I usually have a big spinach salad and black bean salsa on it as that is what I like and it is statisfing  for me.  We are here for you and have fun with LDL.  Jump on board the caboose for the race or tea.  We are always open to new travelers.
Clown Lady

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 4:22 pm
by patns
I am another one who has had great frustration with WW. I joined many times and always ended beating myself up mentally because everything I read always says it is the the healthiest plan out there. But I couldn't lose on it ever. I know now it was because I just can't handle processed carbs. I am sure you will find the way works much better and you will feel better too. I found once I went off the processed carbs my energy soared.

This is an exciting new start for you and 51 is the prime of life. I wish I could have stayed at that age forever :)

Pat

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 5:58 pm
by 51_too_young_to_be_old
You are all so wonderful! Thank you thank you thank you for your wonderful wisdom.  I am so excited it is amazing to me, I for the first time in a long time feel optimistic and hopeful... such a great feeling.

Julie, Yes I have been to a doctor recently :)
we (my Dh darling husband) and myself go every three months for a check up and blood work.

Dh is diabetic but he is under control with metforman. I have an A1C every three months like he does because I have a family history of diabetes, everyone in my immediate family IS insulin dependent type 2 diabetic... not me, not yet. I was diabetic when I was pregnant so that increases my risk.  I am also post menopausal so that bumps it up again. so far, I am fine. I think it will only get better now with my new food choices.

my thyroid is perfect, yep we checked... and I am all the way through menopause, and hormone levels are stable.

I had a blood draw last saturday and have a doctors appointment next saturday. I think he will be happy with my new outlook.

More about me... I have a 30 year old son who will be getting married December 18th. 
I have a family child care in my home and spend my days tending 6 toddler / preschoolers and 2 first graders. I am also the President of our local family child care association. In fact there is a white sheet cake in my refrigerator right now for our meeting tomorrow night ;) as a rule I would have had two chuncks, no more...
I have been married to Bill for 5 years, we met September 2002. Bill is an amazing wonderful man who I adore. He makes me smile every day and has shown me how to live & laugh.
I was married before to a wonderful man named Michael, he died of brain cancer January 2002.
We have a dog Willie, he is a crazy old pug and makes us giggle. we also have 8 birds that call our home theirs.
Going in cruises is how I love to vacation. usually to Mexico because I can drive to LA and I am to afraid to fly (the seat size holds me back).  I hope to go to Alaska July 2011, a smaller me for this would be wonderful. Funny I thought of the cruises when looking at the book, you know cruising with this life style will be a breeze :) I am so happy.

I look forward to getting to know all of you and learning enough a once that was me story.

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 6:09 pm
by Kathie
Hi Sandy.. I am so glad to meet you and look forward to your posts.  Sounds like you are going to fit right in with the crew on the caboose!  Its a fun and exciting trip.  I am loving the ride!  Hop on, Chug Chug.. here we go!
Hugs! Kathie in FL.

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 6:36 pm
by witheraway1
Sandy, so nice to meet you! Where in California do you live? I don't like to fly either. I always drive everywhere. I am a family Daycare provider also.  I2 KIDS FULL-TIME. That keeps you really busy. For 25 years. ONE OF THE BIG THINGS I HAD TO CHANGE WAS EATING WITH THE KIDS AND THEN EATING MY ON LUNCH. I don't don't eat in between meals anymore. A great feeling not to crave the bad things anymore. You will soon experience this too. Good to see you posting. Stay close  Wither

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 6:46 pm
by 51_too_young_to_be_old
Wither! I am so glad to meet another provider. I have been licensed for 30 years.... I did 12 for 10 of those years and am so thankful to be at 6, so much easier. I am in Salinas near Monterey.  I have a web site for my day care it is http://www.sandyland.net. the parents place has pictures on it. It has a pass word (not sure why) name:mrshallsmail and password:happy

where are you located?  Here many people have problems with openings, are you staying at capacity easily? I am so far so good.  Does your area have a day care association?

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 7:23 pm
by witheraway1
I live in Escondido, about 30 miles north of San Diego....I am full most of the time....Right now I have no openings. 2 going off to school and already have those spots filled..........For about 3 years providers have had trouble staying full. Some being forced to go out of business because of lack of kids. Too many people out of worked. I have been one of the lucky few to stay full or maybe I should say blessed. Yes, we do have an association here. I work from 6-6 and am so busy with life I don't really have time to become a member. I could not give a100 per cent to it. Daycare has changed a lot from when I first started. The kids now a days are so disrespectful. Parents  just don't know how to handle their kids. Needless to say on some days I am glad it's over. .It's never boring though and I am my on boss, so that's a good thing. Nice talking to you.................Have a good evening.......MissDonna  and Busy lizzie are also providers if you come across their post.

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 7:28 pm
by 51_too_young_to_be_old
:) thanks  I will look for them. I am glad I have the under 4 crowd, they are easier, but even they have some challenges, I am lucky that most of my parents take my years of experience and put it to use with the children.

Re: Hello I am Sandy, I am new

Posted: July 25th, 2010, 8:27 pm
by MsHeirloom
Great picture Sandy!  Now you are firmly entrenched in LDL!  We know you're smart, too.  Many of us have lots of problems trying to publish pictures :thumbsup:!  Pam