huntnsweetheart wrote: 
i work seven days a week and about 10 hour days ....before i start this i want to do it right and get some motivation and some advice i need to lose weight i just need a lil push in the right direction
I hope I can help. I began about 2 weeks ago. I was unable to find the time to start out completely as I would like due to a hectic work schedule. First I started with fruit in the morning, after a few days of this I began having my lunch or dinner with lean protein and lots of veggies (only lean protein with 1 of the meals). More fruit in the evening and then two or three days ago I started to add beans and have bean soup for lunch everyday. I soak my beans during the day and put them in the crock pot on low before I go to bed so they will be ready in time. Some beans do not need to be soaked and if it is faster for you purchase a can of beans. I am spending less time with prep than I thought and it is actually saving time by taking the time to plan ahead.
I keep reading the book every chance I get even if only for 5-10 minutes and then checking this forum. I appreciate all of those who have taken the time to help everyone! Your encouragement has been awesome! I have lost 2-3 lbs already (I know I have to break the habit of getting on the scale every morning), am feeling great, am not having all of the cravings and sweet tooth desires but best of all is that my dear precious husband saw the changes in me after beginning with the fruit and he is eating with me too!
I have tried most of the other "diets" out there but this really seems to be working for me. I love that I am not starving and that I feel better than I normally do which enables me to do more with the life I have been given! I look forward to adding more healthy/tasty foods in my diet and I can't wait to try all of the wonderful recipes I have been reading in the book and this forum. Finally, I feel really good that I have a plan, not just a good plan but the best plan for me.
Drink your water, get your sleep, eat your food (yes, I actually am saying to eat) and begin however best works for you. Remember Baby Steps work, too. I delayed beginning this new way of eating until I had the time and it wasn't happening, so this is what is working for me. Delay is the thing I did not want to do anymore and I am really glad I did not wait. I am so happy I found Let's Do Lunch and I think you will be too!
God bless,
Pamela