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Lord, Jesus, open the eyes of his understanding and soften his heart toward his family.

HI Brittany,

I am so sorry you are having to experience this. I have been in your position. I will, of course, pray for you and for him.

If I may offer a piece of unsolicited advice - do not let him change you. Meaning to just continue to be yourself in the face of his situation - whatever it is. If you do not return his anger, there is no one for him to fight with. I am not saying to be a pushover. Just articulate what you need clearly and calmly. That's all you can do.

Hope to hear things are better real soon, 

Julie 

Brittney, I am so sorry to hear this too. I hope and pray that it works out for you.Julie has offered some very good advice.

Brittany- We are here for you.  let us know what we can do.  Julie's advice is great.  Also, don't let this derail your efforts with LDL.  You need to do everything possible to feel good about yourself during this difficult time.  Pam

Brittany, You're a beautiful girl with the right source of strength.  I will pray for your hubby to realize how precious love is.  Love and prayers, JF

Satan, you have been put on notice according to Math. 16:19,  leave this family alone in Jesus mighty and powerful name..AMEN!!!

Brittany...just wanting to see how you are doing.  You haven't been on here since you posted this thread.  Hope all is working out the way it should be.  As I always say, especially when things aren't going well, what we want or need may not happen in our time..but it does in God's time.  Hang in there..we are behind you..  Lisa

Excellent advice Lisa!!  hang in there Brittany. We miss you.

Ollie

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for all the prayer and support! we are doing better now!

but kinda sad to say that i don't think i'll be able to do LDL anymore...

he got mad that i was only buying those healthy foods and said we won't be buying them anymore i think i'll try weightwatchers.

Brittany- Just because he wants junk foods in the house doesn't mean you have to eat it.  Or....  if the problem is that he doesn't want you looking good for other men, it s important that you stress that you are doing this for your health and downplay the "looking good" part until he is more comfortable in your relationship.  You remain in my thoughts and prayers.  Pam